<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><title>Chetan Walia I Blog I Breakthrough Weekly I Insights I</title><updated>2010-03-18T00:46:22Z</updated><id>http://chetanwalia.com/atom.aspx</id><link href="http://chetanwalia.com/atom.aspx" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link href="http://chetanwalia.com" rel="alternate" type="application/rss+xml" /><generator uri="http://app.onlinequickblog.com/" version="2.0">Quick Blogcast</generator><entry><title>Is Insecurity guiding your life too?</title><link rel="alternate" href="http://chetanwalia.com/2010/03/09/is-insecurity-guiding-you-life-too.aspx?ref=rss" /><id>tag:chetanwalia.com,2010-03-09:c8a7e2af-798a-4180-9a1a-0edaba576aff</id><author><name>Chetan Walia</name></author><category term="Views" /><category term="Leadership" /><category term="Breakthrough" /><updated>2010-03-09T05:43:00Z</updated><published>2010-03-09T05:43:00Z</published><content type="html">&lt;!--StartFragment--&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;font face="Verdana, Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="3"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 13px;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;!--StartFragment--&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;font face="Verdana, Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="3"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 13px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium; "&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Verdana; "&gt;Is Insecurity guiding your life too?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;I was in a discussion last week with some of very well regarded industry leaders.&amp;nbsp; The subject of discussion was achieving greatness in groups.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;Most discussions on groups, and this one no different almost always and implicitly leads to the notion of&amp;nbsp; ‘least common denominator’ and finding ways to round off the rough edges.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;The magic though lies elsewhere.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;Examine carefully the leaders of the Indian cricket team in the recent past. The turnaround that started under Sourav Ganguly, the magic lay in Sourav allowing other players to be themselves. The magic for example lay in allowing a Sehwag to be more Sehwag than he himself knew he could be. He didn’t attempt to round off Sehwag’s rough edges or for any of the other youngsters.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;The ESSENCE of a fabulous group is allowing individuals to be bigger and more individuals than they ever could be before.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;The principle of the Cricket team applies equally to say an accounting department or a sales department in our organizations. &amp;nbsp;The only difference is that leaders here make sure that people are not free to do their absolute best. Think carefully about these words and ask yourself a very basic question about people who are with you as a manager or a leader&amp;nbsp; - “is he or she free to do his or her absolute best, not as you would judge it but as they would”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;One of the finest managers I have been associated with defined his job to me as being the architect of possibilities for people.&amp;nbsp; One of the best things about being the coach of a cricket team is that you are very luck that you cant to anybody’s job.&amp;nbsp; It is absolutely impossible for Gary Kirsten to walk out on the field between high-pressure cricket matches and do anything.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;He is lucky because the problem in our departments is we promote the best person, he or she knows she is the best and when the going gets really tough, when everything is on the brink of a breakdown, we step in and help out. And why not otherwise my performance will become a question mark!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;The coach of the cricket team or the manager of the soccer team or the master of the orchestra, none of them have the option to step in on the field and bat, or play center forward or to pick up the violin and start playing. They have no other choice but to be the architect of possibilities for the people.&amp;nbsp; The one’s who learn it are the one’s found in great teams. What else is there in management and leadership if not this?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;Why is it that some people are able to conceive of themselves as architect of possibilities while others, a vast majority of others fall into the trap of fixing problems, controlling, making people follow the rules or simply rounding off their edges? What is the difference? Why do most of us get fixated on correcting or improving the other person? My research and my thinking has led me to the difference being just one word – Insecurity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;By the way ‘insecurity’ is not a bad word. Insecurity basically means you are trying to protect yourself from a possible reality. ‘The desire for self preservation’ is for decades documented as the number-one motive for any given purpose. In other words it is the prime motivating factor for human beings.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;When we run into a situation with our teams, or with individuals who have managed to run into rough weather – there are mails flowing everywhere, bosses are marked, the boss’s boss is copied – emotions are running high – you can almost smell tension – that something’s got to give. The natural response, thus becomes, to step in and do something. Why do we do that? Again two probable reasons – one that you don’t want you team to fail and two that obviously it would be nice to be the problem solver in a crisis, after all we have all been taught that all good leaders are great ‘crisis people’.&amp;nbsp; For BOTH these actions, the motivation is self-preservation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;Evidently and understandably one in such a situation is not thinking of creating possibilities for people to help them discover their individuality and become better than ever before. Lets play along a little and see if you actually did the latter what may have happened – one possibility is that the individual would have failed and so you were justified in what you did. The other possibility is that the individual may have succeeded and you might have been marginalized in all the ‘praise’ mails. Both the cases lead to further insecurity. Now that the solution that we actually go with which is to step in and do the needful – what happens there. Problem solved. You got noticed. What did you learn? Next time there is a problem, step in again. Further praise. Thus a reinforcement in the subconscious mind that operating with the motive of self-preservation is the way.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;You see in any situation or any action that you take above, one point is clear – Insecurity will bread insecurity. Ever heard of this –&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;as you sow so shall you reap&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;. Well its very true from operating with insecurity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;The difference between a cricket coach and you in such situations is that he doesn’t have a choice and you do. My guess is that the difference between people who learn to be the architect of possibilities and those who focus on rounding off the edges is that the architects operate from the second most motivating factor for human beings, unlike the rounder who operate from the first. Somewhere, either the architects learned to control or convert their motive of ‘operating from insecurity’ into the second motive, or simply realized that the second one anyways satisfies the first.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;The second most prime-motivating factor for human beings, by the way, is the&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;emotion of love.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;Needless to say that if we were to operate from the emotion of love for the other person (team or individual) – what would our solutions be? Would it be to develop them and help them overcome defeat and become better individuals or would it be to step in and be the hero for ten minutes?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;Its easier to focus on fixing a problem as there is something to do, to solve, to get hands dirty, than to imagine a great reality, extending support and letting go. There is nothing to do. Thus even when we try it, in the absence of something to do, we must do something else – which will inevitably fixing another problem. It’s a TRAP.&amp;nbsp; You will fall for it every single time.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;Insecurity is a result of imaging a worse off reality than a better off reality. Effects of insecurity will always bread further insecurity. One look at the parliament’s handling of the women reservation bill, one look at the few individuals and their possible motives behind attacking the chair of the speaker makes it very clear to me that its out of insecurity. What comes out of that insecurity?&amp;nbsp; - Withdrawal of support to the government. What does the government do next? – They act out of insecurity created for them defer the voting on the bill. Insecurity breads insecurity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;Please realize that the only security you ever need is knowing that you are better today, that you have more skills as on 9&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;sup&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;th&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;March 2010 than you had on 9&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;sup&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;th&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;March 2009. If you do, you have no reason to be insecure. Unfortunately for most of us, the only additional skill we have today over the last year is one more year of experience added on to the resume. That is not skill. That is the most useless of all statistics. The scientifically proven reason for us not focusing enough on acquiring additional skills, of adding value to our own selves, of adding depth to our own selves year on year is that we don’t operate out of the emotion of love even for our own selves. We operate out of self preservation which then makes do so much that it leaves no time for anything else!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;The discussions with the industry leaders and with them with certain teams about what I have written here got us these reactions: “but I cant do anything’, “it’s the culture issue, what can I do”, “I don’t have the authority to make changes and start rating people on these aspects than the normal managerial one’s.”….&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;There is nothing more self defeating, self demeaning, self doubting, self discouraging, self&amp;nbsp; degrading, self humiliating than to say ‘I Cant do anything’.&amp;nbsp; What are you trying to say? That you are no good. That you cannot bring out your own individuality. That you understand it but are so feeble and helpless.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;If you do find these words in you, please remember it only exemplifies the point in this article that you have never operated from the emotion of love for your own self as you would rather demean yourself than to grow into a better and a more powerful human being.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;The greatest leaders of our world, the Gandhi and the Mandela, none of them had any authority. They led without it.&amp;nbsp; None of them said ‘I can’t do it.’ They just did. The only thing they had in common was dreams, passion, integrity and some serious jail time. Even that didn’t bread insecurity, nor did it lead them to any self-preservation. They knew how to convert it to the emotion of love for the masses. Their way was very simple – just let go and be what you want to be, the rest will happen. In fact their ways were so simple that no one else bothered to try. Yet they are the architects of possibilities for the human being. Look what they manifested for us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;What will you manifest? Forget everybody else. Even if you were to operate from the motive of self preservation or insecurity, its only logical to adopt the emotion of love for your own self at least. Isn’t it?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;Yours,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: justify; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal; "&gt;Chetan Walia&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;!--EndFragment--&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;font face="Verdana"&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:Verdana"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 15px;"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 13px;"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 24px; "&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(177, 12, 21); "&gt;Subscribe To the Breakthrougher&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left; "&gt;&lt;span style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 1px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 1px; "&gt;Breakthrougher Weekly is Chetan Walia's weekly ezine and is the easiest way to acquire insights about breakthroughs, leadership, sales, views, coaching, success stories - at No Cost to you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://fifthquadrant.org/Breakthrougher.html"&gt;&lt;img alt="" wstxclass="Image" src="http://app4.websitetonight.com/projects/1/3/5/9/1359636/images/go_pb86.jpg" mainsrc="http://app4.websitetonight.com/projects/1/3/5/9/1359636/images/go_pb86.jpg" uid="22f419b2-04b3-4ac0-84d5-78dc6a4e8a84" mosrc="http://app4.websitetonight.com/projects/1/3/5/9/1359636/images/goro.jpg" mouid="f37d2db8-28aa-4c9e-b900-ea45e7012573" style="border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-top-style: solid; border-right-style: solid; border-bottom-style: solid; border-left-style: solid; "&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/font&gt;</content><summary>I was in a discussion last week with some of very well regarded industry leaders.  The subject of discussion was achieving greatness in groups.

 

Most discussions on groups, and this one no different almost always and implicitly leads to the notion of  ‘least common denominator’ and finding ways to round off the rough edges.

 

The magic though lies elsewhere.

 

Examine carefully the leaders of the Indian cricket team in the recent past. The turnaround that started under Sourav Ganguly, the magic lay in Sourav allowing other players to be themselves. The magic for example lay in allowing a Sehwag to be more Sehwag than he himself knew he could be. He didn’t attempt to round off Sehwag’s rough edges or for any of the other youngsters.

 

The magic though lies elsewhere.

 

Examine carefully the leaders of the Indian cricket team in the recent past. The turnaround that started under Sourav Ganguly, the magic lay in Sourav allowing other players to be themselves. The magic for example lay in allowing a Sehwag to be more Sehwag than he himself knew he could be. He didn’t attempt to round off Sehwag’s rough edges or for any of the other youngsters.</summary></entry><entry><title>Radiant Child to a Feeble Adult</title><link rel="alternate" href="http://chetanwalia.com/2010/03/07/radiant-child-to-a-feeble-adult.aspx?ref=rss" /><id>tag:chetanwalia.com,2010-03-07:b6275136-6b83-4784-8fbf-ece170f616ff</id><author><name>Chetan Walia</name></author><category term="Breakthrough" /><category term="Leadership" /><updated>2010-03-07T04:10:00Z</updated><published>2010-03-07T04:10:00Z</published><content type="html">&lt;!--StartFragment--&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;font face="Verdana, Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;
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&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;font face="Verdana, Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;Radiant Child to a Feeble Adult&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;“What a distressing contrast it
is between the radiant mentality of a child and the feeble mentality of the
average adult.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;These words of Sigmund Freud have
come to life in almost all of my interactions with groups of people of the last
few months, which fortunately in the recent past have been plenty.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;There is nothing more exciting on
the face of this earth than curious little four year old who is absolutely
fascinated by anything and everything at which point we (almost as if to
destroy it) send him or her to school.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;People say education system
doesn’t work. I say it works fabulously. We send marvelous four years olds to
school and manage to consistently roll out a uniform standardized product.
Unfortunately though, a product who has learned so many books and so many forms
of deductive logic, formed fabricated goals and dreams that he or she has
forgotten that her radiant mentality as a four year old was her very simple, no
holds barred – common sense.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;If we look at the research, it
points to a shockingly large percentage of successful entrepreneurial companies
that were started by people who hardly went through school. Am not suggesting
they aren’t educated, they are, perhaps much more than you and me but not in a
brick box.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;The school reform movement
couldn’t be more wrong; they are standardizing the very system that churns out
feeble mentality at a time when we perhaps need experimentation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;My guess though is if we put the
most eloquent of experts in the field in a room to strategize and come out with
a system for education that will be ideal for our children; they would probably
come up with certain additions and deletions to the existing education system.
Nowhere will anyone attempt to retain and build upon the curiosity, the
creativity, the multiple intelligences of a four year old. Not to blame them in
any way because I am certain they would if they retained it for themselves. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;My objective in writing this
article is not to reform the education system. I am no expert. My objective is
to point out certain cases of feeble mentality of us adults that led me to the
words of Freud. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;I am noting below three recent
cases. As different as they may sound at first read, we’ll discover the
similarity of&amp;nbsp; ‘helplessness’ a
little later.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;First; in a recent reform
exercise in an organization, about forty-five years in existence, we were
facing problems of growth. Problem of growth becoming a stumbling block to
further growth.&amp;nbsp; That does happen
in every organization and am not getting into the reasons for that particular
problem yet. However after many deliberations, the conclusion was to put basic
fundamentals in place – beginning with a value system. So with senior managers,
all of them with experience upwards of twenty years we began to understand the organization.
During the session, the discussions got stuck on debate of this one value
system – honesty and integrity. It became clear to me that this was the very
reason (absence of it) for their struggles. At a theoretical level it may seem
a no brainer but at a practical level one needs to think about ethical business
practices, of sales without bribes (of any kind), of forgoing certain current
business and so on. 40% of this organization’s revenue comes from the
government so one can imagine and understand the resistance! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;What to me is deeply disturbing
about this and similar instances is the struggle one has to go through to
convince people to be truthful. What kind of a world have we created where being
honest is almost considered a hindrance to be successful?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;This is not an isolated case – I
can guarantee that 80% (that’s way too conservative) of your reading this will
not be able to even get your boardroom to have a discussion on this. There is a
very simple reason for this.&amp;nbsp; The
reason is that any (ANY, YOURS INCLUDED) organization who participates in
outflow or bribes for getting businesses, their employees definitely practice
or benefit from an inflow of similar kind. So how will they promote a policy on
integrity? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;I have seen organizations that
wear this mask of honesty and then practice these ways through their dealers
and distributors and middlemen or agencies. I can prove within two days with
hundred percent certainties that even then internal corruption exists.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;Now given that the motive behind
all this is purely monetary, the second case is even more intriguing. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;In recent workshops sales
strategies for a client I am working very closely with and deeply attached to,
we were trying to influence a plan that is in sync with personal goals of
people who will implement them. Naturally, we began to understand people’s
personal goals. Most of these goals, to be fulfilled by accumulation of wealth.
No surprises there. So we encouraged people to write their goals and one of the
goals that we stressed upon was for them to double their incomes within 12
months. This is backed by the organization that in effect has a very simple
plan (not known to these people yet) for these people to achieve this. It is
stretched but only needs one to work for 6-8 hours a day. The only trouble is
that is about three times the work an executive does in a 12-hour day. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;Here is the thing – at first
instance people do not even attempt to write a goal that will double their
income in twelve months and every twelve months for three years.&amp;nbsp; Obviously because they don’t believe it
can be done. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;My question is that do you
believe you can do it in your organization? The reality would be in 100% of the
cases a big ‘NO’. The truth though is it is doable and I know people who do it
and do it very simply.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;Now before I write the third
case, a general point. That any of us working in any company rely upon our good
and services to be sold in the market. Now when we sell these in the market, we
probably educate our buyer on the benefits in it for them. The question is that
if the buyer is unable to fully experience these benefits do we still get paid?
Yes we do. But why? Probably because we did our end of the job. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;That’s how all businesses
work.&amp;nbsp; In an attempt to shift this
paradigm in a service company we were deliberating a strategy to change the
game by actually focusing on the end benefit to the buyer, guarantying it and
if and when failing, forgoing the entire fee. Obviously if it comes to that it
will be a huge setback in terms of losses. So again a big debate within the
business group and we don’t have a clear picture yet. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;At a personal level, I cannot
understand that if you trust yourself and your work – why not? As far as I see
it, you are simply putting value on your word. Yet no one does it – at least no
without an asterisk that says ‘conditions apply’.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;Lets go back to our first case –
honesty. The worst thing one can say about an organization or its leadership is
that when they chose to be honest, they will collapse. The truth is far away.
There are plenty of examples of companies who did adopt these and that forced
them to come with solutions, so creatively enriched that it propelled them to
successes that would never have been attained otherwise. Yet, there is a
helplessness to choose the path. Why? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;Two reasons come to mind
immediately – One we don’t trust that we will be able to come up with such a
solution, two ‘mediocrity’ doesn’t hurt because at a personal level there is
some growth in earnings etc happening anyway. Might be dismal but it is. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;The same reasons apply in the
second case of adopting the goal to double your income. You see, we were taught
that wealth is generated step-by-step. Our teachers said, our parents believed
it, ancestors preached it. Again the world over centuries conditioned itself to
mediocrity and taught it as science and a way of moral life. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;But science is not in reality
designed to deliver step-by-step. For example if you are thinking of buying a
mobile phone right now, you can be completely assured that a year down the
line, the same money will deliver you a much more advanced phone, not just a
little better, much better.&amp;nbsp;
Science, in reality contradicts the step-by-step approach. No scientific
experiment has ever aimed at a ‘step-by-step’ improvement, always has and will
at a major result. Only you and I have designed ourselves in that manner.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;The third case exemplifies this
even further. The idea of shifting the game to doing what no body does. The
solution may or may not be right. That solely depends on belief. Am more
talking of the mind-set – why not grow (or out grow) within the accepted
industry norm of mediocrity, why not do 10% better than the industry than to
think of something disruptive? What is so disruptive about putting ‘value’ on
your word, I don’t know. &amp;nbsp;I am sure
we will eventually do it within this organization but what about yours? Is it
comprehendible? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;I comprehend this though – we as
adults have become feeble, weak, ineffective, incapacitated to do the right
thing – for us individually, for us collectively as an organization and
definitely for us, a community at large. We are very happy lo live in what is
rather acceptable.&amp;nbsp; And as evident
what is rather acceptable is rather mediocre.&amp;nbsp; The radiant mentality of yours when you were a four year old
has been successfully institutionalized into quiet helplessness. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;You might say you are successful
and doing well and thus not helpless at all. I agree with you that you are
doing wonderfully well. The only test though of not being helpless is a simple
question. Answer it for yourself – Are you doing the right thing or are you
doing what may be acceptable?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;Our education system
unfortunately teaches us to do the acceptable, to learn the acceptable and to
confirm to the acceptable. The curiosity, the creativity and the endless
questioning of the vibrant child is &lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;punished
with hands in the air and legs on the chair&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;… &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;No bigger sad moment will ever occur
in a person’s life, as this is the beginning to the end of solution finding.
That is the beginning to conformity. That is the beginning to unlearning
radiance and learning acceptance.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;I urge you to ask yourself and
ponder over one basic thought. You knew the right way. Search your heart and
you will know that you knew it. Yet you learned the acceptable way. What will
it take for you to go back o the right way. It will be very acceptable if you
don’t. Probably as such the obvious choice for you! I guess thus that Freud
terms it distressing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;One last thing before I end this.
A man named Kevin Roberts runs a 1.7 billion dollar company, the second largest
in New Zealand. He recently went public with his philosophy. Here it is: &amp;nbsp;1- Ready fire aim. 2- if it ain’t broke,
break it. 3- Hire crazies. 4- Ask dumb questions. 5- Pursue failure. 6-Lead,
follow or get out of the way. 7- Spread confusion. 8- Ditch your office. 9-
Read odd stuff. 10- Avoid moderation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;I am not suggesting that this is
the right philosophy for you or for me. But I know this for sure incrementalizm
is your worst enemy. It is acceptable and life goes on with it. Though some day
this reality will dawn upon you that you will be forgotten moments after you
leave your company. That day you will know you did the acceptable.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;Yours,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;Chetan Walia.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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There is nothing more exciting on the face of this earth than curious little four year old who is absolutely fascinated by anything and everything at which point we (almost as if to destroy it) send him or her to school.</summary></entry><entry><title>The END</title><link rel="alternate" href="http://chetanwalia.com/2009/11/21/the-end.aspx?ref=rss" /><id>tag:chetanwalia.com,2009-11-21:f88039f5-046d-4932-9325-83b915c623aa</id><author><name>Chetan Walia</name></author><category term="Breakthrough" /><category term="Leadership" /><updated>2009-11-21T08:03:00Z</updated><published>2009-11-21T08:03:00Z</published><content type="html">&lt;!--StartFragment--&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 13px; font-weight: bold;"&gt;
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&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;The End&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Less is more.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;I am about to make a contrarian point to a popular belief.
I am writing this article to communicate a very simple message – &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;the less
you do, the more you have&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;This is obviously opposite to how most people will live
their lives, most of us have been taught to work harder or smarter. It makes no
difference how smart you are or how hard you work.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;I am here today to tell you without any doubt and
hesitation that the more you work, the less you will have. I have done my
research on this statement. You can do yours and reach the same conclusion or
for a while just trust mine.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;If A is success in life, then A
equals x plus y plus z.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Work is x, y is play and z is
keeping your mouth shut&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Albert Einstein&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;We live by rules. Some our own. Some inherited in our
upbringing. The mind essentially functions through rules. Without rules, its
fair to say that the human brain will be incapable of functioning. It needs
rules. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Everything that we do or will do in life is guided by one
of these rules in our head. Right or wrong it’s a reality in our heads. Our
actions therefore have to be consistent enough to validate the rule.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;For example a simple rule the world at large follows – Go
to school, get education – go to college, get a degree – get a masters – get a
job – get a career – get settled – have a good life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;To some extent everyone follows the above rule. It is a
way of life. Thus our actions resonate with it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;The rules can become so strong and such a guiding force in
life that if something is occurring and against the rules – we will actually
make it fall in line with the rules. Plenty of examples here – a child refusing
to study, a co-worker refusing to attend office for eight hours, working long
hours, arts and sciences in management and leadership and so on and on and on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Where do these rules originate from? Basically from
someone having achieved some degree of success in applying them and hence over
a period of time some other being terming it as science. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;I’ll tell you what – my realization out of researching and
reading about the so called rules is – THERE ARE NO RULES&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;- ONLY SUGGESTIONS.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Am making a big statement – nothing is a rule – absolutely
nothing – not even science – it’s all assumed reality – it’s observed reality
and our actions automatically fall in line to make us believe that it must be
true.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;I was sharing and discussing this last week with a very
distinguished professor of physics. He shared with me some very interesting
stories that am passing on to you. In a nutshell he said – science is made up
stuff.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;He said, for example, if you take a piece of matter and
accelerate it to the speed of light; according to the equation it becomes
infinitely heavy the faster it gets. E=mc&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;sup&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;2 &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;span style="font-variant:
small-caps"&gt;&lt;sub&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/sub&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;suggests
it should. Do we know if it really happens? So if in experiment the results of
the equation don’t balance out on both sides, or if the real life results don’t
make sense, he says we just take something and cancel it out with the other
side so it comes out ok. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;I am not making this up. In fact I learned that a
mathematician came up with another science to validate the incongruities in
science – &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;the process of renormalization. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;E=mc&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;sup&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;2 &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;span style="font-variant:small-caps"&gt;&lt;sub&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/sub&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;was not even the equation
Einstien submitted in the first place. He was dyslexic, he had some terms
backwards. This is all true – its accepted and published in&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Tony Rothman’s Everything Relative.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Take another scientific generality&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;- &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Nothing travels faster than light&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;. It becomes&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;reality therefore nothing will ever be
discovered to be faster. Before you think I am insane – think about it; why
cannot you go past the speed of light? Because light is the tool you are
measuring with!! This is the reason. If light is the tool, we use to perform
all our measurements of velocity, then obviously everything is in relation to that
factor. That is why Einstein said nothing travels faster than the speed of
light. He never meant to suggest that you cannot go faster than the speed of
light (that is your rule). He just said you cannot measure it. Never is it
implied, for example, that thought does not travel faster than light but you
cannot measure it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;You see even Science is real only
till its proven wrong. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-tab-count:1"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;When we keep living in the rules,
then we can never question them. When we don’t question them then we can never
change them. If we cannot change them, then we have to validate them. To
validate them we act in a manner consistent with them. However we have desires,
dreams etc beyond the realms of the rules so how do we go about getting them.
We try to do more, put extra effort, work harder, smarter …..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;whatever else that we do…. BUT think
about it, we still do all of it within the rules!! So how will we see a result
that the rules do not permit? – Answer : We won’t. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;If living by these rules was the
answer or if the rules were correct in the first place, then theoretically
everyone following them should experience the same level of success and
happiness. Reality is certainly very different.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;If even the scientific rules were
to be correct – then any two people facing a certain illness, be it anything,
having the exact same symptoms – should react in the same manner to a same
medicine. Will they? Two patients with the same cancer – will they both be
cured by the same medicine? Some do get cured and some don’t…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;There are not really rules. It’s
an assumed state of mind. We chose to observe things that fall within the rule
set. We encounter every single day thousands of ‘possibilities’ that are not
within the rule set – is it possible that these opportunities simply pass us by
because its not in the scope of our rules and so we don’t see them? After all
how can we expect to see anything faster than light when light is the fastest?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;You see what we do not expect
to see, does not occur!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;There is a law of quantum
probability – &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;the act of observing something causes it to cohere into what
we expect to see. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;That
is when a specific outcome is not expected then the causes to make the
unexpected happen will not be seen automatically.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;What you expect – you will
experience. The more you do, the less you will get because within the rules you
can only get what the rules provide for. So doing more means getting less of
what you really want. Believe you me I have rarely seen a person write a goal
that falls in the realm of rules. So how on Earth will ‘doing more’ get the
result.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;When you begin to loosen your rule
set concerning what is possible, you will automatically begin to see a lot of
other things. Change will in reality occur when you STOP trying to do
something, not when you are trying to make something happen. Change will occur
with THE END not with the beginning. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Changing how you will perceive,
changing the rules, changes your observations, which can change your outcomes,
right now!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;It is our attempts to do
something, our need to constantly observe something (to validate our theories
of life) and our desire to be powerful within these rules, that keep us from
experiencing those things.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;I’ll give you an example -&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;five years ago I was trying to write a
book. I started plenty of times but wouldn’t be able to go beyond a few pages.
Every time I wrote a few pages, I couldn’t figure out what next, what will be
the flow, how will I take it to at least a 150 pages. The more I tried to do
it, the more I failed. Then one day (of course not conscious about all this
that I am writing today) I stopped trying. The desire remained, the book in
reality far away. I stopped trying to write the book and got back to writing my
monthly articles. Suddenly at the end of the year I realized that 20 articles
packed together = the book. It happened. Simple rule that changed was that book
has to 150 connected pages. Whoever said that was a rule… it isn’t. The book is
out and most of you have it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;The more you do within the rule
set, the less you get. ‘The end’ will be the change, the result.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;It’s very simple. It’s common
sense. All you need to do is three things.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:
yes"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;ONE – &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Drop it – &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;means a state of altered
possibility where other rules, or NO rules apply at all. Abandon them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;TWO – &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Intent&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; – Intent is very misunderstood.
We normally think intent means deciding what we want and then trying hard to
get it. Right? This means a lot of work. Why should you work so much? Because
you probably don’t think you will get it otherwise. Because you already don’t
have it. It is your desire to have the thing combined with your belief that you
will not get it that amplifies the state of not having it. Intent is simply a
virtual reality. Its just intent. Intent means intent, pick up any dictionary –
none will say intent means doing something. Simply intent.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;THREE- &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Let Go&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; – Simply means let go. Embrace
the end of rules and let go. THE MORE YOU LET GO, THE MORE THE THINGS WILL
OCCUR. Don’t try to do something, the more you will do the more it will elude
you. Just let go and It will happen. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;“Intelligence is simply your faith in
your heart and mind”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;   &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;So keep the faith and let go of
‘doing’ – the new doing will happen without you realizing it and oftentimes not
just by you, providence too.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;If you are skeptical about the
above three things. TRY IT. Try it with any small thing. Drop the rules, place
the intent and let go… Give providence, give chance a chance….. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify;tab-stops:365.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Bruce Lee taught three key principles to his students: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;1- &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;absorb what is useful&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;., &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;2- Discard the classical
mess &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;which
basically means the clutter, the reality, the rules and your way for the way
things are and finally, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;3- No way as the way &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;means apply the rules that show
up, not the one’s of the past that is entertain all possibilities.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;The End is the change. Doing something in the current
reality isn’t. The reality remains, the rules prevail. You see we can transform
reality by breathing in one reality set, pausing a&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:
yes"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;moment, letting go of it, and breathing out another reality
set. If you have got the point in this article, then it is not as difficult as
it sounds; and if it does not sound difficult anyways, that is because it is
not.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;To your endings.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; "&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Chetan Walia.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:11.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Management by Values – NOT by Economics&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;Marvin Bower, a law graduate, joined McKinsey in 1933. A
mere six years later upon the death of James O. Mckinsey, Bower&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;bought over the then 18 person
management accounting firm with regional presence and 13 year history of
problematic existence. The 35 year old Marvin Bower was the founder, creator
and inventor of ‘management consulting.’ &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;Lets put this in perspective – in the 30’s and 40’s in the
US, business was regarded as a job less desirable than any profession like law,
medicine, armed forces etc. it was usually meant for the third or the fourth
child who had nothing to inherit.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;Marvin after taking over the company, shut down the
accounting division and the cash flow as a result. He was certain that the business
McKinsey will be in will be management consulting. In the journey he envisioned
working with top managements to solve their biggest problems. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;His decision making, philosophy and concept of management
and that he laid down for his firm was this – do what is in the interest of the
client and in the ‘long-term’ interest of the firm, else don’t do it. From the
moment of acquiring ownership until his formal retirement in 1992 Marvin lived
and breathed this vision. He led by values, the economics came by.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;In 1959, the best performing associate in the office was
Gerry Adlinger. He was smart, in charge of significant revenues (almost 30%)
and was viewed as&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;future leader.
He was working on a top management organization study. He had recommended a
change and creation of a new division and position to the client. He
recommended himself for that position, not in writing or formally but in verbal
communication. The CEO happened to be a good friend of Marvin and told him what
had happened.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Marvin asked Gerry
if it were true and Gerry said ‘Yes’….&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt; 
&lt;/span&gt;Marvin told him,” you have 30 minutes to clear out. Its done and over.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;McKinsey during the days had promoted a culture where
expressing dissent was encouraged.. Many people thus alarmed by the potential
loss of business expressed their dissent on Marvin’s hasty solution. They
argued that it was an informal chat and Gerry, given his record, could have
been given a warning. Marvin simply responded by saying, “if you are not
willing to take the pain to live by your principles, then why have the
principles.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;A few days later Gerry told one of his close friends at
the company, “he did the right thing.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt; 
&lt;/span&gt;I violated values. And knowingly. Had he not done this, this would have
only grown. And values would have been consumed by economics.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;You must be wondering why I am narrating this story. Its
to emphasize and re-emphasize a very critical point about modern day
management. Most organizations, my guess is 90% of them, most likely yours too
govern by economics of the business. Most organizations I speak to or happen to
visit these days have very exciting visions and goals. Some doubling their
business in two years, some in five and some even tripling it. Anything wrong
with that? Absolutely not. Just that in my view, it’s an incorrect approach to
achieve the economic goals of the business and will eventually be defeated in
the very goal.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;Just examine the Gerry example. How many companies do you
know who will fire a guy controlling 30% of your business on a ‘value based’
issue? Will yours? &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;You might say why should they? After all we are on track
for business goals.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;Economic goals and missions do not achieve it’s objective
if they become the prime objective. There is a reason for that – which is that
performance gets tolerated and rewarded over inherent business values. Thus the
executives behaving against the core values lead you to culture of ‘money
mindedness’, jealousies, bickering etc. This may serve your financial goals in
the short term though lead you to a possible collapse in the long.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;Establishing sound economics is essential to creating an
organization, though nothing can beat a sterling reputation and outstanding
people. Financials over reputation (of providing excellence) will lead
businesses to compromises and therefore to losing independence to provide
excellence. Think of this within your organization, how many times have you
provided a service or product to a client because ‘he wanted it’ or because ’it
was easier&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;to sell’ versus ‘a
solution that you knew would really be the right one???? How many times? I’ll
answer it for you – plenty… The reason is the pressure on you to deliver on the
financial results. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;Though all of this sounds very normal and correct – there
is a downside. &lt;strong&gt;Management through economic orientation does not always do
the right thing&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Verdana"&gt;.
What is the right thing? You exist because you have a customer. The right thing
therefore is whatever is in the best interest of the customer, whether or not
he knows or realizes it!! Management through economics cannot achieve this,
management through values can. The number one value has to be the customer.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;A couple of days back, I was meeting with an ex-client and
a CEO of a 3000 CR company. They have a goal – to be 7500 CR in the next five
years. A year back they hired one of the big (BIG) consulting firms to help
them structure and strategize to achieve this. My friend tells me he told them
what he had in mind, his vision, his goals etc and the consulting company did
an outstanding job. So much so that he is about to give them a new project. I
was going through some of the stuff that this ‘highly reputed’ firm did and to
say the least I was totally disgusted. Let me give you an example of what I
have been saying so far – the firm met with the CEO, listened to his big plans
and dreams of achieving this monstrous financial goal and started putting their
thoughts in place.. I was going through this very beautifully designed,
aesthetically flawless ‘values’ document that has been arrived at. Of those SIX
values, not one mentions the customer, not one mentions integrity and ethics in
reaching a vision and not mentions ‘people inside’… They do mention things like
focus, speed, profit, risks etc… &lt;br&gt;
&lt;br&gt;
For anyone who has studied or experienced management will know that this is
flawed. You see our values (individually or as a business) will guide our
behaviors. Our behaviors will achieve the performance. I asked my friend what
is the number one reason that will be instrumental in his achieving 7500 cr. He
said “we already have pipeline of assured orders. All we need is our customer
to stay with us and our people to serve them well.” I looked at him and asked
him a very simple question “which one of your values encourage this?”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;You see the consulting company did what the client wanted
to see. They didn’t by any stretch of imagination even attempt to figure what
might be the right thing to do. The reason is simple – the consulting companies
more than anyone is guided by ‘economic results’ internally… I said it before
and I say this again &lt;strong&gt;Management through economic orientation does not always
do the right thing&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Verdana"&gt;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;Will values like focus, speed, profit, risks bring in
results – yes they might.. Will they create an organization for the long term…
NO.. People create organizations and businesses, people, internally and
externally. An organization that does not adopt an ‘outside-in’ approach cannot
survive the test of time. Outside-In means looking at everything from the point
of view of the customer.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;The final question I asked my friend was “which company do
you think your customers want to do business with? The one that has a vision
statement saying 7500cr in 5 yrs or &lt;em&gt;one that endures customers?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Verdana"&gt; What do you want your people to
do? Chase customers, get them, then push the plant, do something and the end of
the day somehow deliver it too OR &lt;em&gt;focus on servicing the customer in areas
critical to them, provide solutions, develop excellent relations and create a
reputation of being trusted the most&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;”&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;The answers were simple. One is a result of management by
economics. One can be an outcome of focusing on values.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;My friend couldn’t believe the end of our two hour meeting
that he paid a couple of crores to the consulting firm. I wasn’t surprised.
This isn’t the first time I have seen value destroyed. See, the people
consulting with the company on behalf of the firm are not to be blamed. They
work hard, really do, and give their all to the client. It’s the culture
prevailing inside the firm of financial goals that prevents them to take the
risk to act independently and fearlessly – thus they are unable to question the
CEO and tell him he is wrong.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;I remember three or four years ago, we were consulting
with a smallish company. We together brainstormed hundreds of ideas and
strategies, implemented too.. It didn’t work. I now realize why.. All the time
we were focused on business results. The client couldn’t understand that with a
great team why the results weren’t coming, neither could I so we kept trying
new, different things. We forgot ’values’. It got ignored, whether the values,
were being lived and implemented. In hindsight I am 110% sure, if we did just
that, the rest would have fallen in place.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;Professional values are not personal values, they
fundamentally differ in substance and purpose. However the leadership must
demonstrate the same vigor and integrity in living by business values. Business
values establish a mind-set and a compass for decisions made and actions taken.
&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;Invariably, irrespective of the documented values,
economics and financial goals tend to become the prime drivers. One must
realize that business values, whichever one it may be provide parameters that
define the business’s objectives and means of competition and serving customers
– thus defining the long term gain of the business.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Values involve a DELIBERATE CHOICE of means to achieve
goals and guidelines for all decisions in pursuit.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Verdana"&gt; This statement to me suggests
that it is a no-brainer for any business to center it’s goals around the
customer. Logically, even if someone has half a brain, customer oriented values
will chose decisions in their interest, chose actions in their interest, will
ensure the customer wins, will ensure that he’s with you. Will ensure
reputation and thereby ensure market capitalization and profits as a by
product. If only we applied a quarter of that half, we’ll immediately realize
that financial objectives are not values and &lt;strong&gt;cannot be allowed&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Verdana"&gt; as a guideline, unfortunately we
lead it to become the parameter.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:10.0pt;
font-family:Verdana"&gt;Professional values are not financial objectives. While
financial considerations cannot be ignored, business goals must not be
financial. If they are, the business will fail to serve it’s customers and
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</content><summary>Marvin Bower, a law graduate, joined McKinsey in 1933. A mere six years later upon the death of James O. Mckinsey, Bower  bought over the then 18 person management accounting firm with regional presence and 13 year history of problematic existence. The 35 year old Marvin Bower was the founder, creator and inventor of ‘management consulting.’

 

Lets put this in perspective – in the 30’s and 40’s in the US, business was regarded as a job less desirable than any profession like law, medicine, armed forces etc. it was usually meant for the third or the fourth child who had nothing to inherit.

 

Marvin after taking over the company, shut down the accounting division</summary></entry></feed>